Born in Marion, KY in 1975. We to college at Harvard, then transferred to Vanderbilt after a year. Went to Vandy off and on for a couple of years while working midnight shift as a deputy jailor in a Barnie Feif kind of county. Worked on a computer system for the jailed, worked that into a 20 year career as a computer programmer. Somewhere in there I reconnected with my old best friend from High School and married her. We were married for 7 years. Divorced and eventually quit my job.. I was depressed and kind of imploded. I wanted to make some friends and rebuild my life but found that in 2025, actual human, non-romantic connections are hard to make. So I started this web site. I hope it makes both your search and mind a little easier.